Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Last post for 2013

Can you believe that 2013 is coming to a end. It still seems like yesterday that it was turning 2013. I guess 2013 was a good year for Mike and I. A lot of things went on in 2013. We tried the fertility treatments again and did not get pregnant. We became great aunt and uncle for the first time this pass year. And our nephew is a cute loveable little boy who is going to be a heartbreaker when he gets older.
Mike got out of the Army this pass year so that has been a big adjustment. Mostly for him but for me some to. Do I still call myself a military wife or what? I just dont know what to call myself now. I know it has been harder for him to adjust then it is for me. Moving and going from one job to another and then to another. Yep he had gotten one job and worked there not even a month, probably like three weeks and they was telling him that he was fired but wouldnt tell him for what reason. But it was a good thing he had a job lined up already that he was going to take that pays more then that one. And yes I mean pays more. Why would he stay at a job making $11 something a hour when he can make $15 something a hour. All that gets gone in no time with bills and buying groceries. So we are still trying to get adjusted to all that.
What I hope 2014 brings us. Well lets see I know it will bring us another great nephew or niece one. In a few short months our oldest nephew and his wife will be having a baby. So cant wait to find out what it is going to be.  Other then that I just hope that 2014 is a very good year for us. I hope we get back on our feet. I hope once we get started with the adoption process that we wont take long for us to adopt a baby. I hope that my photography business, the origami owl business, and the other little business I have got going on will make a big hit and I start earning money from them. Shot Just earn either $50 to a $100 a month on them will be okay with me. It will help us out some.  I also hope that I will lose some much needed weight. I am going getting into running but havent been able to do that in like a week because of a twisted ankle but it is getting better, so hopefully soon I will be able to run again. I hope to do some 5ks in 2014. It may be one or two but I am going to try my best to do them.
Before you ask no those are not resolutions. I do not make those as I never keep them. Those are just some things that I hope will happen in 2014. I know in my heart what ever 2014 brings us it will be a good year because we will have our family and friends and that the love god that that is all that matters.

Friday, December 27, 2013

Seriously some people now days

Seriously some people now days. Mike and I was in walmart's today getting us some milk and him some cakes for work this weekend. We just got to the checkout line and since we didnt have that much so we decided to go down the 20 items or less checkout line. There was this woman who the cashier told her she would have to go to a different line as she had a buggy full and I knew a buggy full of items (so needless to say she had way more then 20 items or less in her buggy) and this woman was so rude about it say that it was just ridiculous that I am having to move. Seriously you seen the sign that says 20 items or less and you want to be rude about the cashier just doing her job. Maybe next time you should go to the right checkout line.
Okay now on to another little vent. When we got to the durango and there was this person parked up behind us and we couldnt back out. We get in and park puts it in reserve and starts blowing the horn at this person parked right behind us. Seriously people are rude, selfish, and lazy. Oh and can not forget materialistic  also. And it seems like around this year they get worse.

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Hope you had a wonderful holiday

I hope you have had a wonderful holiday. My was pretty good. I got to spend this holiday with some of my family members. I have missed spending the holidays with them. Got to watch my great nephew open up the gifts we all got him. Sure have missed seeing the reaction of a little one when they are opening gifts. Next year I will have another great nephew or a great niece and hopefully by Christmas of next year Mike and I will know whether or not we will be adopting a little one of our own. I wish my oldest nephew had been there but I he he wasnt able to or he would have been.

What all did you get for Christmas? Mike got me a purse (yep another purse lol) a laptop cover. It is a blue color I love it and I got a pink Ipod touch. And some candy for my stocking. My Christmas eve gift was a necklace that says love you to the moon and back. He sure does know how to make my heart melt. My oldest niece got us a gift. I wasnt expecting that. I actually wasnt expecting to get anything from family. I just wanted to spend time with them. But I thought it was sweet of her. She made us some fudge and pretty darn good fudge to. She is a pretty good cook. My parents got us some kitchen towels as we still havent found out kitchen towels in all theses boxes yet that we are unpacking slowly.

On Christmas eve I twisted my ankle so I guess you can I got that for Christmas to. So I havent been able to go for a run yet. Got to let that heal. Maybe in a week or so.

Other then all that we had a pretty good Christmas. We hope you did to.

Monday, December 23, 2013

This kind of makes me sick

This kind of makes me sick. I also just find it so sad. I just seen a story where this person was bragging about how much they spent on their kids and then asks for donations for toys for their youngest as they are struggling to pay their bills. Seriously you would do something like that. What a bunch jerks. There are people out there who would love to give their kids a christmas but they are having a hard time to doing that. The toys for tots in one community here is struggling to get some more gifts up for like 600 kids. I hope and pray that they was able to get what they needed so theses kids can have a christmas. I also hope that the person who did all that will learn what is important. Dont get me wrong me I am glad that their kids is getting to have a christmas but dont ask for donations for your self when you put yourself in that spot. Maybe instead of asking for donations for yourself maybe you should ask for donation to help a needy family.

Is this what this world is coming to when people only cares about how much they are getting for christmas. Where is the it is better to give then receive? Where is the doing a nice deed for someone? 
I think we as a society have lost what it means to do good things in this world. At least that is how it seems as everytime I turn around I hear stories about things like this.

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Things I do not find funny

This is just a few things I do not find funny at all.

People making fun of suicide. Suicide is not a joking matter and people who makes fun of it should be ashamed of their selves.  Instead of making fun of it maybe ask how you can help. Pray for these people and their love ones. It is time people stop making fun of it and find ways of helping each other.

People who makes fun of infertility. That is not a laughing matter neither. It breaks my heart each and every time some one wants to make some kind of rude comment about infertility. Like the phase you must not want kids or you would have them and then start laughing (so far no one has not said this to us but I do know a couple of people that has been told this and it breaks my heart for them)

People who makes dead baby jokes. Seriously when is it funny that someone is going thru the lost of their son, daughter, grandchild, niece or nephew. I am not a very mean person but when people wants to start in on this you better believe that the crap is about to hit the fan. I will  unleash the bitch side and it will not be pretty. I also hope and pray that people out there this making fun of this will never have to go thru something like that. I have lost two nephews and I think of them every single day. As I type this I have tears in my eyes because I wish I could see them one more time and hold them in my arms. I hated that my brother and sister (they both each lost a son) did not have to go thru that. I would never wish that on anyone.

Dont wish infertility on anyone neither.

Another thing I find that is not funny is making fun of people's spelling and grammar. Yes I dont wrote a blog about that so I will not getting into that again but I will say this. It is never nice throw peoples mistakes in their faces because you never know what kind of animal you will be unleashing. 

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Grammar and spelling

Okay I wasnt going to get into this as it is a touchy subject for me. I am just sick and tired of people saying that people needs to learn grammar or spell, that it is their pet peeve. Have theses people ever stopped to think that people are not perfect. You dont have to have perfect grammar or spelling. I can tell you this I am not perfect. I have never been perfect. I have never been good with spelling or grammar. Does that stop me from writing, No.  I am so glad that I have spell check on my phone and computer because I can tell you this. None of my writing would make sense without it lol.

I am not going to apologize for not having perfect grammar or spelling. I am not going to apologize for me being me. If  no one likes it, then dont read what I write or dont be friends with me.

And not all that but stop and think before you speak about something like this because I can tell you this you will never know who you are going to offend. They may not the type of person to let it roll off of their shoulders and they maybe the type person to come unglue on you in a not so nice friendly manner.

Okay that is all I have to say.

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Seriously what we pay football coaches now days

Seriously the amount that some football coaches are getting paid. I really think that it is wrong that a football coach is getting $7 million to coach a college football team when that money could go to the school itself to help the students better their education. Also it makes me sick that all theses men and women in the military gets a sucky pay for risking their lives to keep us safe while a football coach is getting $7 million a year. It is just so wrong. Not only that, it shows me that football coach is not really out for the that college or that team but for his self. If he really cared about that school and that team wouldnt he renewed his contact without asking that much money.

Come on people it is time that we really start to look at what is important. Is it more important to go hog wild for a football team and having to pay a coach that much money or  should we not help others and help this country get out of a recession. If this country keeps going like it is we will be in another great depression and then what. Are we going to continue to pay out $7 million to football coaches.

And before any of you Roll Tide fans out there dont get your panties in a wad I feel this way about all the football coaches. I image that all colleges are paying their coaches way too much money now days. And look at what the NFL is getting paid. We take football too seriously now days, yes this is even concluding me. I think it is time for a change. Yes I will continue to cheer for Auburn and support them win or lose but I will no longer make it all about the football.

Friday, December 13, 2013

another businesss adventure

i am doing another business adventure (yes i am still with the origami owl and jewelry candles) but i wanted to try a little something else. maybe with all i am doing i will make some money to help my family out.

https://seatsboutique.kitsylane.com/index.php

this looked like it will do well but we will see. share with your friends and family.

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Running/weight loss

I wish running and loosing weight was easier but I know that this hard work will be worth it to be back into shape.  It doesn’t help that I had hurt my foot one day last week and it wasnt hurting when I started to run again today and before I was even half way thru my run my foot started to hurt again so I walked more then I had runned. I am hoping to get up to half a mile by the end of Dec. I would like for it to be mostly running but it will be okay if it is walking to but I want to be able to run a half a mile by then. I am going to try my hardest to get to there.

Well that is a weight loss update for you for now. I am hoping that by the end of this month I will have more of a update for you.

Monday, December 2, 2013

The ugliest of football

You may think that there isnt any ugliest to football or maybe you are just thinking of something different from me. The ugliest I am talking about is how people wants to place blame on the football players of any team. The football players they play their hardest to win the game but sometimes their hardest isnt enough but that doesnt mean that they should be threaten or blamed for not winning and also doesnt mean that the winning team should be threaten. What is wrong with this world when we find it is okay to blame and threaten people. Theses so called fans needs to just suck up a lost and keep given their support for their favorite team (which ever team that is) and stop placing blame on theses players. The work their butts off doing something they love doing and what are you doing but just sitting there on your butt either in the stands or at home watching the game on tv and then when it doesnt go your way you want to place blame or start threaten the other team.

I am proud of the Auburn football team. If they lose they lose if they win they win. It doesnt matter which one I will always support and cheer them on and not place blame on any of them or any of the other teams.

War Eagle.