why is it

why is it that some family members treats their friends more like family then their own family members. why is it that they let their friends know stuff that is going on (example like how their kids are doing in school or if something had to another family member) but they cant say a thing to their our family members about it. also why is it that some family members only talk to you after you say something to them. also why is that some family members is nice to you infront of your face but talks shit about you behind your back. ( i know that happens to me all the time) yeah i will emit that i have talked about some family members behind their backs but you know something it is not about shit and i am not the one the that usually starts it and plus it is never bad and i am pretty sure that they know i am talking about them. also why is it that at a family gathering your family choose to ingore you. if you going to ingore me at a family gathering then just dont invite me anymore (and yes that happens to me at just about all the family gatherings that we have). do they not realize what it does to the family. it pulls family apart. and it also makes you feel like you are not part of the family and makes you feel unlove and like you are being ingored. i have felt like this by some of my family members. and i am sure they know who they are and i am getting tired of it. if you dont want me as a family member just so and i will never speak to you again and i will never invite you to anything again.