Saturday, September 22, 2012

drama and facebook

i am sure you all have heard of it. drama and facebook. well just drama and any kind of social media. i think that drama just needs to stay away from theses things. i try to stay out of drama. but sometimes it finds me. sometimes it is family that causes drama. what i really hate seeing on facebook is when a mother and daughter is fighting (and no this is not about my mom and i) about a month or so ago one of my cousins and her daughter was fussing on facebook. no i didnt say anything to them about (let me tell you it was very ugly) but   to me i think they both was just trying to make the other look like the bad person when in truth they was making each other look bad by trying to calling each others names( no i will not say the names they was calling each other ). but i did put on my facebook status "You know I find it that Facebook or other social media is not a place to be fussing or fighting. If you want to fuss and fight do it in private. Because no ones to see you fuss and fight." that is word for word what i said. as you can see i didnt mention any names. the other day i was reading in a family members comments on her status she posted and i seen where this cousin of my was still friends with her. and i was like hmm i havent seen anything about she was doing so i went to her profile and i notice that we was not friends anymore. so she had deleted me. and you know i am glad that she did because i so do not need people who are nothing but drama in my life. and i am glad i do not have to continue to see if her and her daughter is still fussing and fighting on facebook. 

yes i think social media like facebook is a good place to keep up with friends and family that doesnt live close by. (as long as you are not finding out important things on there, like me finding out that my oldest nephew was getting marrried. now let me tell you that really hurts to have found out that way. ) but i do not think that social media is a place to start fussing and fighting or causing drama. ( mike and i both has started deleting people who tries to cause drama with us on any social media. ) to any of my readers out there please stop and think before you start any fights or drama with anyone on a social media. stop and think is it worth to have your family and friends to see all that. or is it worth to have to deal with any of that. and if anyone tries to start any thing with you just delete them off of your friends list and go about your day.

No comments: