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Thursday, October 18, 2012
today my niece got married
today my niece got married and i am so happy for her and my new nephew lol. i wish that mike and i could have been there but there was no way that mike could have taken any leave time right now. but we have been thinking of them today. i know that my niece and new nephew will have a long and happy marriage. i really do think they are the perfect match for each other. they both balance each other out. and they have learnt to talk and work thru problems instead of run away from them. they have had the best teachers in that department. someone had texted me a few pictures of them today and i tell you i loved getting those pictures but i also i have to say i broke down and cried like a big old baby. i could have image what i would have been like if i had been there. i know the reason why i cried though. one is that i couldnt be there to see them get married and the other and main reason is that i am so happy for. i love see her (all my other niece and nephews) happy. when i see them happy it makes me happy. there is nothing i wouldnt do for my nieces and nephews. if i could i would give them the world. yes i said that and i would. i know i didnt give birth to them but they are my nieces and nephews and i love them to pieces. even though they may not know that but i do. again i am so happy for my niece and new nephew. now just got to wait until march for their baby to be born. i bet turtle is going to be so cute.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
football fans
every since football season has started i have been seeing alot of , to be honest on calling it right is, hateful talking. (and i would like to point out that this is not just about one person. it is about alot of people, some of them friends and some are not. and i am leaving it at that.) i have seen where there has been fans of one sort team say that it is because of fans of other team that makes that team looks bad with all the name calling but theses same fans starts name calling the other team. i am not talking about smack talk. yes there is a difference. i am talking about when you start using really using bad words or name calling (to me name calling and using bad words is not smack talking). i just want to take the time to point out to theses fans that says that it the fans of another time is what makes the team look bad with all the name calling and then turn around and start the name calling yourself. what is the difference. there is no difference. you are just like them. yes it is alright with smack talking but when you start name calling or using bad words that is crossing the line. what makes you better then these other teams that you dont like or follow. you have your favorite team and others have theirs. why not just cheer for your team and ignore these others. do you not realize that some people is just trying to get a rise out of you. if you ignore these others then they will see that they can not get a rise out of you and they may just may leave you alone. yes i have a favorite team. i cheer auburn. yes i know they are not doing good this year but i will still cheer for them. because that is me an no one will change my mind on that. yes i have smacked talked with my family during the iron bowl because they are alabama fans but neither me or family has ever called the teams names or used bad words. and we will never will. i think that childish behavior needs to stay out of football. we all are grown adults (and yes it is mostly grown adults that are using the bad words or name calling.) and i think we all need to start acting like that and teaching our kids that it is not okay to use bad words or call people or sport teams names.
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Grammar and spelling issue
I am beginning to think that is one of my pet peeves. I am getting so tired of how people are saying how they can't stand or what ever people who does have the prefect grammar or how they are misspelling words but what I like to say is that one of my biggest pet peeves is people throwing this in my face. It seems like everyday someone is saying this. Is I don't have perfect grammar or have the prefect spelling. I have never been good at any of that. And if you can not be my friend even with my imperfection then I don't need you as a friend. I don't need someone in my life who is wanting throw my imperfection in my face. I don't throw yours in your face. Either love me for me or don't love me at all
Thursday, October 4, 2012
A decision we made
Mike and I talked about things last night and we decided that we are not going to tell anyone when we are going to take the fertility drugs until we feel like we are ready to tell everyone as we do not want to be hammered with when do you start the fertility drugs. Are you having side effects and when do you find out if they worked and so on. We don't need that stress on top of the stress that we will have while taken them with worrying and doctor visits. We hope that are family and friends understands our wishes and not ask us about this. Once we are ready to tell people we will write a long blog about what we went thru.
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Hair growth
Today was another hair trimming day. I think I am getting the hang of trimming my own hair but I think the next time which will be in 9 weeks I am going to go have it trimmed and thin out some. I have really thick hair. And maybe find a cute kind of long hair style and get it styled to. We will see what I can find. I am glad that my hair has grown out some. I want it to like the middle part of my back and I know I will get there one day.
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
military doctors vs civilian doctors
i was going to write this topic yesterday but i got busy doing other things. so here is my thoughts on this topic
okay first i just like to point out there are some good doctors both in the military and civilian life. so please do not just assume that they all are a like because they are not.
i personal havent seen a military doctor for myself. i choose to have the tricare standard because i like having the option of choosing what doctor i see. but now mike has to see a military doctor or we would be paying a whole lot of money out of pocket for him to be seen and not only that there are some civilian doctors will not see a person in the military they will turn them away unless a military doctor refers them to the civilian doctor (well at least that is all i have been told and read. so please dont quote me on that ). i think you will find that there are doctors out that is mean and rude and needs to learn some bedside manners when dealing with a patient. but some of those doctors are good doctors when it comes to medical problems so never really rule out those doctors. there are some doctors out that has very good bedside manners and they suck with the medical stuff. and i think that most doctors whether they are military doctors or not are so frustating. they want to keep you waiting for test results. or keep you waiting in the waiting room.
i guess what i am saying that there are difference in this doctors and then there are not. it is up to you to do your research and decide on which way you want to go. never let someone tell you not to use a doctor if you feel like that is the right fit for you. you are the only person that is in control (well besides god ) of your health and how you want to go about getting help for when you are sick or just dont know what is going on with your body.
okay first i just like to point out there are some good doctors both in the military and civilian life. so please do not just assume that they all are a like because they are not.
i personal havent seen a military doctor for myself. i choose to have the tricare standard because i like having the option of choosing what doctor i see. but now mike has to see a military doctor or we would be paying a whole lot of money out of pocket for him to be seen and not only that there are some civilian doctors will not see a person in the military they will turn them away unless a military doctor refers them to the civilian doctor (well at least that is all i have been told and read. so please dont quote me on that ). i think you will find that there are doctors out that is mean and rude and needs to learn some bedside manners when dealing with a patient. but some of those doctors are good doctors when it comes to medical problems so never really rule out those doctors. there are some doctors out that has very good bedside manners and they suck with the medical stuff. and i think that most doctors whether they are military doctors or not are so frustating. they want to keep you waiting for test results. or keep you waiting in the waiting room.
i guess what i am saying that there are difference in this doctors and then there are not. it is up to you to do your research and decide on which way you want to go. never let someone tell you not to use a doctor if you feel like that is the right fit for you. you are the only person that is in control (well besides god ) of your health and how you want to go about getting help for when you are sick or just dont know what is going on with your body.
Monday, October 1, 2012
Oct already
can you believe that it is oct already. i would like to know where this year has went. it has went by so fast. at least it seems like it. i wish it would slow down some more. sept was a okay month for us. would have been better if i hadnt been sick lol. dont know if i told you this or not but we sold the house we owned in alabama last month. it feels so good that we have a little extra money to buy the things we really needed. like a new couch. okay we really didnt need the couch but the couch we do have it starting to get uncomfortable to me. and plus when my knees act up (like this pass weekend with all the rain) i can stretch out to well. so we went looking for a new couch and found one where i can stretch out and it is going to be comfortable. just got to wait until they furniture store gets it in and delivered to us. so can not wait but they said it could be a week to two weeks. up next will be a kitchen table. but we are going to save money for that so that we can just buy right out like we did the couch. okay moving on from that. i really think that oct is going to be a good month. well better then good. it is going to be great. first up is that our oldest niece will be getting married this month. we wish we could be there for her and future nephew but there is no way that mike could take time off for their wedding as he has alot going on at work right now. we are hoping that we will be able to start the fertility drugs this month. we have our fingers crossed on that. but with theses military doctors taken their time with getting mike's tests results sent to my doctor we really do not know. ( i think that will be my next topic blog i will write about the frustations of military doctors. i am sure there are a lot of military spouses and members knows this topic pretty well lol ) lets see what else we are hoping to be able to do this month. oh this coming weekend there is this event in one of the towns close by that we are going to go to. it sounds like it will be fun. probably crowded but it sounds like fun. i am also going to be starting my online schooling for photography. i should get my first course work tomorrow(i kind of hope i get it today though). that is going to keep me busy. i hope i do a good job on the tests and the photo projects. i think i will do a good job on tests but i am a little scared that the i am going to fail at the photo projects. yes i have people tell me that i am good at taken pictures but i know i have alot more to learn and i dont want to fail at this because i love taken photos. i also need to finish up some more crocheting projects. i am having a problem with the hats again. i was doing so well on making the hats and then when i started doing the diaper covers and blankets it was like i forgot how to do the hats. i am not going to give up on making the hats again. and other thing that is happening this month is that mike is finally going to dress up for halloween with me. i so can not wait. i hope we get a lot of trick treaters this year.
well that is pretty much it for the happenings. if anything else goes on this month i will write about. i hope you all are doing okay and have a good oct.
well that is pretty much it for the happenings. if anything else goes on this month i will write about. i hope you all are doing okay and have a good oct.
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