Grammar and spelling issue

I am beginning to think that is one of my pet peeves. I am getting so tired of how people are saying how they can't stand or what ever people who does have the prefect grammar or how they are misspelling words but what I like to say is that one of my biggest pet peeves is people throwing this in my face. It seems like everyday someone is saying this. Is I don't have perfect grammar or have the prefect spelling. I have never been good at any of that. And if you can not be my friend even with my imperfection then I don't need you as a friend. I don't need someone in my life who is wanting throw my imperfection in my face. I don't throw yours in your face. Either love me for me or don't love me at all