is about to just stop being there for people

i just want to say that this is not about one person or anything like that. it is in general. for the pass month or so there has been people who has asked for my point of view or advice about well anything really and it just seems like if they dont like what i say they just throw it back in my face. why ask for my thoughts if you didnt want to listen to them. i am not say that you have to have the same thoughts, same opinions, or the same views as me. can you image what this world would be like if we all had the same thoughts, same opinions, and the same views. i am just tired of being asked for my thoughts or views, or opinions and it getting throwed  back in my face. oh this is one of my less favorite things to hear.  " you dont have kids so your thoughts, opinions, or view doesnt count because you dont know what it is like" you know i may not have kids but i do have thoughts, opinions, or views when it comes to kids, when it comes to raising them. yes i know having nieces and nephews is not the same as having your own child but you know i have been a aunt for nearly 20 years now and i know what in some ways what it is like to raise a child. i am saying that i would be the prefect parent no but who is. there is no prefect parent or no prefect way to raise a child. you do the best that you can and hope that they turn out to be the kind, gentle, loving, honest adult you want them to be. (i do have to say that i have pretty much deleted people out of my life who has said that to me because i do love my nieces and nephews like they where my own. and they know i will always be there for them. after all there is a saying that it takes a village to raise a child and i would like to think that i have helped my brother and sister out when they needed it by being there for my nieces and nephews when they needed someone to talk to when they couldnt (and still can) talk to their parents. and i know that my brother and sister will be there for mike's and i kids when we do have them.

as that is said i am really starting to get to the point where i am just going to stop given my thoughts, opinions, or view about something. and if anyone wonder why i do not help them anyone well now they know why know.

just had to get that off of my chest. thanks for listen (well reading lol)