Decluttering day 5 ( bathroom)

Yes the bathroom took a little longer to do then I thought. It wouldn't have if I had did alittle more then what I did on Monday or was it Tuesday I didn't do too much on it. It was one of those days lol. I finished it up today. All I really did was wiped the shower and tub down and cleaned the toilet and little things like that soot really didnt take me too long to do today. I think it looks pretty good and back to way it looked when we first moved in lol.

Next week I am going to start on the bedroom.

Here is the final picture of the bathroom

Ps. I never did find those ear drops so I guess I need to buy more for when my ears start brothering me ugh.

You have a right to feel the way you do ( mostly for ttcers)

I just wanted to write this post. I have been seeing where there are some people out there saying that someone going thru infertility shouldn't be upset, mad, or just plan sad because there are others pregnant. That no one should feel that way. That god didnt design us that way. And that you can't be sad or mad about some one else's blessing and expect your blessing to shine thru. You what I say to this. Yes you have the right to say that as God gave us free will. That means we have the right to feel how we do. I do not think that god is within holding given us our blessing because we get alittle upset or sad because of others getting pregnant. Just because you get alittle upset or sad when a friend or relative gets pregnant before you do doesn't mean you are still not happy for them deep down inside. It is best to feel this way and let it out to others going thru what you are or write your feelings down in a blog and cry. Yes even pray to god to give you strength to get over being upset or sad one. It best to do all this then keep it bottled up and let it bubble up until it is over spilling over and you taken it out on that friend or relative one. Don't let it stay inside you because it will start to eat you up in the inside and that isn't healthy for you.

Don't forget you have every right to feel the way you do and never let anyone tell you other wise ( this also goes to everyone and not just the ones ttc. )

Decluttering days 3 & 4 (bathroom)

Yesterday I didn't do too much on the bathroom just did a little. I worked on the towels. I hope that all our towels will fit in the little bathroom closet. Today I finished up the sink. It all looks so much better. Tomorrow I will finish it up and put the finally picture of the bathroom up. For now here is pictures from day 3 and today.

The first is day 3 and the second one is day 4.

Decluttering day 2 ( bathroom)

Day 2 of decluttering the bathroom is going pretty good. I got up under the sink done. I wish our bathroom was alittle bigger so that we would have more space to put things. But it is a small space and I have to make do with what I got. I did throw some stuff away. Some of needed to be throw away but some of it we wasn't using at all so I just went ahead and got rid of it. No sense in having it if we wasn't using it and plus it was old to so in the trash it went.

Here is a picture of up under the sink

Decluttering day 1 ( bathroom)

Okay I was going to start on the bedroom on Monday but I got to looking for some ear ache meds in the bathroom last night and could not find it so i decided that I would start on the bathroom today. I started with the drawers today and I think I did pretty good job on them. I know they are not prefect but it works for me. There is much I can do with the small space that I have with all the stuff I have lol so I am having to work with what I got. Here is a picture of just two of the drawers. I did get a picture of the third drawer but just to let you know the third drawer has my makeup in it. I may rest tomorrow with the decluttering and pick back up on it on Monday.

Decluttering ( living room ) day 2 and 3

Today I finished up the living room. I knew it wouldn't take to long to do. There wasn't really much to do. I am so not looking forward to our bedroom and the office and the garage. Those are going to be rough but they need to get done. Next week I am going to start on our bed room and then the next week our bathroom and then the office and then the garage. Also can't forget to do the hall closet to. Hmm I may do that one sometime tomorrow.

Here are pictures from day 2 and today. The first picture is from day 2 and the last is from today.

Decluttering day 1 (livingroom)

Today was day one of decluttering the living room and I didn't do to much today just moved some stuff around where it looked better at and did some dusting. Tomorrow I will tackle the hard part lol. Here is a picture from today. ( a side note I had done organized the DVDs like a week or two ago so that is why I didn't have much to do today. ) I need to move the fan to a different spot but it looks better then what it did and dust free lol

Day 4 and 5 of decluttering ( kitchen)

Sorry I am just now making another post of the decluttering. Been trying to relax and rest some. I finally finished up the kitchen today. I would have finished it on Saturday but like I said I had been trying to relax and rest some.

First photo is from day four and the last photo is the completely finished kitchen ( well I still need to mop but I will get to that soon). I hope and pray that our kitchen doesn't get that bad again.

Tomorrow I will start on the living room. It may not take me as long as the kitchen but we will see.

Decluttering day 3 ( kitchen)

Today was day 3 of my decluttering the kitchen. I did the cabinets by the fridge today. I needed a spice rack but I will get one later on it. But it does look a whole lot better then what it did. Tomorrow I will do the other side of the kitchen and I should be done with the kitchen. Then next week I will be moving on to another room. It will probably most likely be the living room.

Decluttering day 2 (kitchen)

Today was day two of deck uttering the kitchen. I use to clean the fridge up like once a month but when I got sick like I did back last year I didn't clean it like I should have so it was messy. I am going to try to get back to keeping it cleaned like I use to. Here is a picture of my clean organized fridge. Now it looks like there isn't to much in the fridge but it enough for us lol.

decluttering day 1 (kitchen)

i decided to start with the kitchen. i was going to start yesterday but i didnt get any sleep at all on sunday night so i just rested yesterday. but i got started today after paying bills and going grocery shopping. i tried to look for one of those plastic hanging shoe organizers like things that you can hang on the back of the closet door. i was going to hang it in the pantry so that way i can put the packs of stuff in it but i couldnt find one at walmart. but i will look at target when i go there (thinking of going one day this week or next monday one). but i did get one of this folding shelves like things and it works with keeping things divided some. let me tell you my pantry you barely could find anything and now i can find what i am looking for. here is a picture of the pantry. that is all i did on the decluttering in the kitchen today. tomorrow it will be the fridge. and so on.

doesnt it look so put together some. i know it isnt as perfect as some peoples but let me tell you it looks so much better.

decluttering

i am going to start decluttering our home next week. i am trying to decide on which room to start with. should i start with the easy ones or start with the hard ones first. i am going to try to take a week for each room, so that way i am just doing one room a week and not feeling rushed to get it all done. theses are the rooms i am going to do. living room, kitchen, bathroom, office, bedroom, closets, and garage. i know what you are thinking the closets are not really rooms but they do need to be decluttered to. and also the garage. i think on the garage i will wait until mike has time to help me with it. which it maybe march before we get to the garage but it will get done also. i will take some after photos and post them on here as i get finished with each room. i am not going to before photos as i do not want to share our clutter with the world lol. i know once i do the office i will need to get some organization supplies. so i will most likely not start with it. i am thinking i will need some organization supplies for the kitchen to. mainly for like the pantry. i would like to find a way to make the bathroom closets where they do not look so piled up with the towels and wash rags. i may start with the bedroom because i dont think we will need any supplies for that room. but then again maybe i will start with the livingroom because it wont take so long to do. hmm which to start with. i do know i am going to take the next couple of days to decided on which room to start with first and looking up ways to get it organized and decluttered. i will make a post about it how well i do and with a picture next friday. wish me luck on it. and i hope and pray that it doesnt get cluttered up again. which it probably will. i really do not know how things gets cluttered for. but i think we do need to try to not clutter up ( the bedroom and office and garage are the worse rooms that are cluttered.)  rooms so much.

it's a new year

as this is a new year and a new year is suppose to be about changes. well i am going to make a change in my life this year and lets hope i can stick to it lol. no this is not a new years resolutions. i do not make those. i do have ever try to make changes in life that i know that needs to be changed and this is one that i had noticed last year (can you believe when we say last year we mean 2012 already i can not believe it lol. ) okay you maybe wonder what that change is, dont get your panties in a bundle i am fixing to tell you lol. that change would be this.

i am only going to give advice to people who i feel would not bite my head off for that said advice whether they like it or not. and if you do start to bite my head off for the advice i give because you dont like it then i will not give you anymore advice ever again. (so to those who did me this way last year do not expect me to give you advice this year as you will not receive it. i do hope that best things goes your way). if i feel like you are in a bad mood and you are taken it out on me i will not give you advice anymore neither. as when you are in a bad mood or is mad at someone else then dont take that out on your friends or family that care about you and wants to help you. i promise you i try my hardest not to take my bad days out on another one else. i usually stay away from social media or talking or texting anyone on my bad days as i dont want to take it out on others. oh if anyone who starts drama with me over anything i say or do on facebook or another social media you will be deleted from there as i do not have room in my life negative or drama. all that drama is highschool crap. i didnt like it then and tried to stay out of then (if you dont believe that ask a few of my close friends from highschool and they will tell you the samething i just did).

if you show me respect i will show you respect. you disrespect me do not look for my respect. i was raised that you earn your respect by how you treat others. so you respect me i will respect you.

no more letting people run all over me. (yes i let family and friends do this and no more.)

i am going to try my hardest not to worry so much about things. about how i look.

i am going to love me for myself and not how others see me. (of course i have always done this but i think there was times there that i let how others seen me effect me a little).

if no one likes this new me well i am sorry to hear that. if you do not want to be my friend or part of my family i am sorry to hear that but i am going to change who i am and who i want to be for anyone.

edited to add some new photos of mike and i. our first photos together for 2013.