it's a new year

as this is a new year and a new year is suppose to be about changes. well i am going to make a change in my life this year and lets hope i can stick to it lol. no this is not a new years resolutions. i do not make those. i do have ever try to make changes in life that i know that needs to be changed and this is one that i had noticed last year (can you believe when we say last year we mean 2012 already i can not believe it lol. ) okay you maybe wonder what that change is, dont get your panties in a bundle i am fixing to tell you lol. that change would be this.

i am only going to give advice to people who i feel would not bite my head off for that said advice whether they like it or not. and if you do start to bite my head off for the advice i give because you dont like it then i will not give you anymore advice ever again. (so to those who did me this way last year do not expect me to give you advice this year as you will not receive it. i do hope that best things goes your way). if i feel like you are in a bad mood and you are taken it out on me i will not give you advice anymore neither. as when you are in a bad mood or is mad at someone else then dont take that out on your friends or family that care about you and wants to help you. i promise you i try my hardest not to take my bad days out on another one else. i usually stay away from social media or talking or texting anyone on my bad days as i dont want to take it out on others. oh if anyone who starts drama with me over anything i say or do on facebook or another social media you will be deleted from there as i do not have room in my life negative or drama. all that drama is highschool crap. i didnt like it then and tried to stay out of then (if you dont believe that ask a few of my close friends from highschool and they will tell you the samething i just did).

if you show me respect i will show you respect. you disrespect me do not look for my respect. i was raised that you earn your respect by how you treat others. so you respect me i will respect you.

no more letting people run all over me. (yes i let family and friends do this and no more.)

i am going to try my hardest not to worry so much about things. about how i look.

i am going to love me for myself and not how others see me. (of course i have always done this but i think there was times there that i let how others seen me effect me a little).

if no one likes this new me well i am sorry to hear that. if you do not want to be my friend or part of my family i am sorry to hear that but i am going to change who i am and who i want to be for anyone.

edited to add some new photos of mike and i. our first photos together for 2013.