okay here is a debate i have been having with some friends. and in some ways some friends has kind of made me feel bad for what i believe in and has really what you say been preaching at me about this. and i feel like they should not be preaching to people. i was raised to not preach to people. let them believe in what they want and i believe in what i want and not to judge. and yes in someways i do feel like i am being judge for what i believe in. okay you maybe wondering what the debate is. here it is.
the debate is whether or not sex is an important of a any relationship but mainly a marriage. and i have to disagree on this. and i have to disagree that god designed sex to be important of marriage. i do not believe that is it. even though i can not have children i believe that god designed sex for you to concieve. yes i do believe in birthcontrol. i have taken birthcontrol before. i think that sex does not solve problems that are in a marriage. and if you say that you are having sex with your husband or wife because it something they want. that it makes them happy. let me rephase this. if you have sex only when your husband or wife wants to have sex. even if you are not in the mood for but you do it anyways to make them happy that is wrong. what about your happiest. i can tell you this love having sex and i love having sex with mike. the lord knows i do but we both understand when one of us is not in the mood we do not have sex. we also do not have sex to solve our problems. you may say that is not what you are doing and it could be true. and rightly i really dont care if you are having sex to solve your problems. that is your business not my. but that is what i believe in. i have never not once said that no one should never sex at all. i never said and there is some people that in some ways are trying to say i said that and i have never said that. but i do not think that sex is a important of a marriage just a bonus.
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