You have a right to feel the way you do ( mostly for ttcers)

I just wanted to write this post. I have been seeing where there are some people out there saying that someone going thru infertility shouldn't be upset, mad, or just plan sad because there are others pregnant. That no one should feel that way. That god didnt design us that way. And that you can't be sad or mad about some one else's blessing and expect your blessing to shine thru. You what I say to this. Yes you have the right to say that as God gave us free will. That means we have the right to feel how we do. I do not think that god is within holding given us our blessing because we get alittle upset or sad because of others getting pregnant. Just because you get alittle upset or sad when a friend or relative gets pregnant before you do doesn't mean you are still not happy for them deep down inside. It is best to feel this way and let it out to others going thru what you are or write your feelings down in a blog and cry. Yes even pray to god to give you strength to get over being upset or sad one. It best to do all this then keep it bottled up and let it bubble up until it is over spilling over and you taken it out on that friend or relative one. Don't let it stay inside you because it will start to eat you up in the inside and that isn't healthy for you.

Don't forget you have every right to feel the way you do and never let anyone tell you other wise ( this also goes to everyone and not just the ones ttc. )