not doing to good and taken a break from things

right now i have decided to take a break from decluttering. i may pick back up on it next week or the next though. but right now i just got concentrate on myself at the moment. somethings went down yesterday with some family members and it just has me, well the best way to say it is has me feel broken. like my family is broken (i would like to say mike and i are good. this was nothing about him and i. just some other family members). i seen a family member hurting and responded to let them know that i knew how they felt because i have been there. then i guess you can basically i got attacked by another family member for saying that i knew how it felt. but it put that feeling to the side because it wasnt worth it to me. but i wanted these two family members to just put hurt feelings a side and see that they just need to let it go but there is one that just doesnt want to let it go. they want to keep holding on and on. until now our family is broken. i tried to keep it from breaking as i know that some others in my family has tried to but nothing we have did or said has worked. i guess this just needs to play out i guess. i do feel like that this family member that isnt letting go needs to help because i feel like there is something wrong with them. they are now telling a bunch lies about some more family members. (no i am not going to go into details about what all is going on. just know that it is a bunch of senseless trash that just needs to be put out on the side of the road for the garbage truck to pick up.) this family member that is not letting go they need to think is all this senseless trash worth losing your family over. no it isnt. you are suppose to be a grown adult act like one. and stop putting the blame on the other person or other people. because the choices you have made is all on you. theses are your choices and you need to realize that no one else is putting the all the blame on you.  look inside your self and you will see that you are wrong and not right.  and you need to stop trying to make it out that you are the only person that is right about anything because you are not. you need to find someone and get some help. because you really need. you also need to start praying to god to help you. i know i am praying to him to help you because you really need. you also need to stop making out like you are the only one that bad things has happened to in the past (actually it is time to move on from the past. yes some of the things that happened in the past was bad and you shouldnt have went though all that. but i can tell you this some of the things that happened to you was your own choice you choose to go down that path. you could have went down the other path that was put in front of you but you didnt. and live for the now and for the future. your past isnt your future it is your past. ) and you need to stop making other feel like you are the only that is going thru struggles. everyone is struggling with something. it may not be the same thing as you but they are. right now i am struggling with things but i am not going to let what struggles get me down. i am not going to be down anymore. i am going to stand as tall as my short legs will let me (LOL) and i am not going to let things keep me down. i have seen how strong i really am and i know god is help me thru this. i hope and pray that you (my family member and anyone else that is struggling with something) will turn to god and let him help you thru what ever it is you are going thru. please dont let our family be torn apart. it is time you really look and see what others who sees a point of view from looking in and know that you need help to put things away and not let this family be torn apart. we love you and we always will. until you can do this i will have to love you from a far because my health can not take this anymore. i stayed sick yesterday because of my anxiety but up higher then has ever been. so i can not do this anymore and i will not do it anymore. just remember that we love you and we always will. and we will be there when you are ready to leave the past in the past and live for the now and the future. dont let your past control you or consume you because if you do you are going to be dragged down and you may never get back up again and we do not want that.