how to say this but in a nice way

how to say this but in a nice way. guess i need to explain something first. i am in this group for infertility no i am not going to say the name of the group because the group itself is a good place to go. but i would like to say something that was kind of bought up within that group. one is baby fever. you know i really believe that no matter how old the child of the person that has baby fever is should matter. what should matter is if that person is a good parent. i have seen some people that should never have kids (people who beat or murder their child) but they are constantly having more kids. and another thing i seen where i thought was really uncalled for was talking about other peoples kids no matter if that child has a mental illness or not no one should be talking about other people kids. even if it is supposedly a friend of yours then why talk about that friend and their children. i guess that is just showing what kind of person you really are. i guess what i am saying is this you never really know what a person is going thru. you never know when a person is struggling with infertility (dont forget that some people are not open about this subject as others are). and not only that god only gives us what we can handle. he is the one that knows are true strength even when we do not know it for our selves. and not only that but how would you feel if someone started talking about your kids. you know i would be pissed royal pissed. so that is why i do not talk about other people kids. it is not fair to those people or to their kids. the kids are the innocent ones here. so please to everyone out there think before you speak about anyone or anything because you never know what kind of relationship you will be ruin or who feelings you are hurting. i have been learning this because there has been times i have spoken about things before thinking and i am lucky enough that this person or people are finally talking to me. (that is on a different subject that i wish not to bring up but i just wanted to say that i learnt from my mistakes and would like to share please think before you speak because you never know who is listen or who you are hurting. and sometimes things comes back to you.)
i would also like to say that maybe this person or people in this group didnt intend for it to come out the way you did and that is why you need to think before you speak or type.