Monday, June 24, 2013

what is it with people now days

what is with people now days. do they not want to spend time with their kids (no matter the age) or what. do they not want to take care of their kids anymore. why have any if you are not going to take care of them or spend time with them. why let your kids take care of their selves. dont get me wrong i know kids needs to learn how to be responsible but do you not realize that with you not being home with your kids and teaching them how to be responsible is showing them that you either just dont care or is teaching them that it is okay to not be responsible when they become adults and has kids their selves. that is one thing that is wrong with kids now days. look dont get me wrong i am not saying that you should quit your job and just stay home with your kids 24 for 7 but what i am saying is that theses people who are either sitting on their butts and letting their kids go wild or parents who gets off of work but doesnt go home to be their kids. they go somewhere else. that is not being a responsible parent. and i know that some times parents need to take some time for their selves but you should not leave your kids at home by theirselves in the evenings every single day. spend some time with them. show them that you truely care for them because i will tell you this one day when your kids grow up they may not have anything to do with you anymore if you dont.

and other thing that gets me and i can not figure out is why people want to rush their life away. they put too much pressure on theirselves to get things done that they rush and rush and rush and then something bad happens. slow down take a breath and really think is loosing my life or the life of other more important then living. i would whether take things slow then rush because living is more important then dieing.

and like two more things that just gets me. one is the disrespect that some kids ( well not just kids there are some adults like this to) has now days. they want to walk right over people. they want to be so disrespectful either to a parent or a grandparent or just everyone in general. they also want to take advantage of others. is this how you want to be treated. i tell you what i will treat you the way you treat me. if you disrespect me then you count on me being disrespectful to you. dont get me wrong i know some people has bad days but there is a difference in bad days and being totally disrespectful. if you are having a bad day dont take it out on others. just say excuse me but i need some time a lone to decompress from the day i have. so will you please just give me like 5 to 10 minutes or so by myself. and the last thing that gets me is how kids (and even some adults) wants to spend all their time on theses games system or playing computer games for. pick up a book to read every now and again. get up and go outside and get you some fresh air one. dont make playing theses games your life. (which if you had a job making the games would be good but still dont make it your life) if you make playing games your life that isnt much of a life.

yep i just dont know what is it with people now days as you can see haha.

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