is this woman for real

is this woman for real. i am reading about that Isabella Dutton, a 57 year old mother of two who declared her children to be "the biggest regret of her life." is she for real. why would you say that about your kids. maybe she needs to stop and think that it isnt her kids but herself. first of all i would just like to say this. if you knew before you had kids that you didnt want any why didnt you use protection. i dont care if you are married if you dont want kids then use protections. and then if you do have what some calls a mistake and you still dont want to have kids then why continue to have them.  i am quote her on this
"To some, my life before I had the children may have seemed humdrum and my job as a typist was, it's true, not much of a career. So what was the great sacrifice, you might think?
What I valued most in my life was time on my own; to reflect, read and enjoy my own company and peace of mind. And suddenly that peace and solitude wasn't there any more. There were two small interlopers intruding on it. And I've never got that peace back."
 well i will say this you can still have time on your own as a parent. it is always best to take a little time for yourself when you can so that way you are not staying so stressed out all the time with the day and night of taken care of a child. i am not saying go out every single day and take time for yourself but sometimes parents do need time for their self to decompress.

and other quote from this woman
"I cannot understand mothers who insist they want children - especially those who undergo years of fertility treatment - then race back to work at the earliest opportunity after giving birth, leaving the vital job of caring for them to strangers."

first of all you do not theses women that are undergoing years of fertility treatment and then go back to work. have you ever stopped to think that they maybe the type of person who likes to help their husband out with paying bills and such. i will also say this. undergoing fertility treatment is not cheap and most of the things that we have to go thru is not covered by health insurance. so yeah they may need that extra money to help raise their child or children. what give you the right to say crap like that. i bet that if you had had problems conceiving you wouldnt be saying this crap. yes i think you should be ashamed for saying this stuff. children are a gift from god and yes some of those gifts comes from infertility treatments but that doesnt mean that they are not a gift from god.