Friday, April 19, 2013

unsupportive people

why cant some people just be honest with us and how they feel instead of telling us that they are praying for us to become parents and then turn around and make comments about us posting about or writing about our doctor visits. we have been doing this pretty much every since we social media came about. most of my friends on facebook are other ladies i have meet thru infertility or ttc message boards so yeah they like to hear about our journey. some are friends from highschool and some friends i made thru mike being in the military. and some is family.

if you feel like you can not be supportive of us in this journey either hide our posts or blogs about our journey thru infertility or just delete us from your friends list because we do not need any unsupportive people in our lives right now. just dont go behind our backs making comments about our posts or blogs because we are going to continue to write them not only because we have been doing this for years but we also want to get our story out there so that way people will see that going thru infertility issues is not shameful. that it is a problem in this country and we hope that by getting our story out there that maybe just maybe we can help someone else. to let someone who is scared to come out about their infertility struggles that it is okay they are not a lone. there are others just like them.

again if you feel like you can not be supportive of us during this journey then hide our posts about doctor visits or delete us from your friends. dont tell us that you are praying for us when you are not. we do not need that or want unsupportive people in our lives.

you maybe wondering what all this is about. we learnt yesterday that the same relative that excused me of bad mouthing her to family was making comments about our doctor visits. from my understanding she was trying to make others feel sorry for her because we are going thru infertility treatments and she wasnt. and that we shouldnt be posting about our journey or something like that. now this relative was telling us how she is praying and has been praying that we become parents soon but then go around comments about this. why be two face about it. just been honest with us. or at least not say nothing at all to us about it one. i am not making theses post to make others feel sorry for me. we want to share our journey with others. if no one likes then that is on them not us. 

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